I’ve had this cashmere cable cardigan in my closet for a year or two now but I’ve only worn it outside my apartment once or twice. This might sound silly but it makes me feel older than I am — specifically, like a suburban mom. Will saw me wearing it around my apartment once and asked me what on earth I was wearing… and I totally get it. On the one hand, it’s possibly the coziest thing I own. On the other, waring it with leggings and ballet flats, I look like I should be hopping into a huge SUV and schlepping my kids to soccer practice. But I think I’ve finally figured out how to wear it: with white jeans and riding boots. Oh and a faux fur infinity scarf, because it’s been my saving grace this winter.

cashmere cable cardigan

winter white outfit

kate spade riding boots

faux fur infinity scarf

Goodnight Macaroon pearl studs ℅  //  Faux fur infinity scarf  //  Cashmere cable cardigan (similar)  //  J.Crew white t-shirt  //  Michael Kors double leather strap watch  //  Henri Bendel Carlyle tote bag ℅  //  Lilly Pulitzer white jeans  //  Kate Spade riding boots (similar)

Am I crazy or do you see what I mean? Maybe it’s because I’m 5’1″ and the long cardigan kind of envelopes me but I think the heeled riding boots help it feel more appropriate for a 25-year-old. Or maybe I just stick to wearing it inside. ;) Weigh in in the comments!

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*Photos by Anabella Veress


Last Saturday, I went to my doctor because her receptionist told me she couldn’t refill a prescription (for iron pills, which I haaate) over the phone. When I got there, the doctor said I only needed blood tests every three months so I actually didn’t need to be there at all. She kindly didn’t charge me a co-pay but I’d taken a $15 cab to get there so I was pretty bummed that I’d wasted half the morning making my way to the east side. So I did what I do almost every time I’m feeling down: I looked to my 101 in 1001 list to find a way to make myself feel accomplished and in charge. There are plenty of goals I couldn’t cross off in a single day (as much as I’d have liked to board a flight to visit my brother in London right then and there) so I scanned my options until I landed on no. 90: have my makeup professionally done.

I’ve admitted this before but just in case you’re new around here: I am a total beauty novice. I have a few products I swear by (you can read about those here) but I literally never go outside my comfort zone when it comes to makeup and I’ve had a hard time finding online resources on makeup for redheads. You won’t find me rocking a smoky eye or reading up on the latest and greatest BB cream (mostly because I still don’t know what that is). Truthfully, I’ve never really had a great experience with makeup artists (a very orange-y senior prom look comes to mind) but I was determined to find someone who could impart her knowledge on skincare and an everyday beauty look that would enhance my natural look (read: no violet eyeshadow that would “complement my red hair” — no really, I’m good).

So I grabbed an iced coffee and walked ten blocks from the doctor’s office to Sephora and booked an appointment with a personal beauty expert (free with a minimum purchase of $125, which I learned is extremely easy to spend there). I killed time before my appointment by picking out a few books in the Strand at Club Monaco across the street, which is really the best pick-me-up there is. By the time I was settled into the makeup chair, I was caffeinated, in better spirits, and ready to learn from the best.

As you read, it was a pretty spontaneous decision and I didn’t have crazy high expectations going into it. But can I just tell you? My mind was BLOWN. We spent the next 90 minutes remedying my skincare concerns (dry complexion, under eye circles) and reviewing makeup techniques (this little guy is a game-changer). After every step, she’d spin me around to the mirror and I’d marvel at how much better I looked: still totally like myself, but like I’d just come back from a tropical vacation or woken up from twelve hours of sleep. Youthful, fresh, awake, alive… I looked like the best possible version of me.

makeup for redheads

(Is now a good time to confess that I will never feel comfortable taking a selfie? Here’s all the evidence you need.) If I haven’t already lost you and you’d like to know which products were my favorites, here’s what my “personal beauty expert” used on me. This is her recommended skincare regimen for dry sensitive skin and well as makeup for redheads!

skincare regimen for dry sensitive skin

clean  //  tone  //  treat  //  moisturize

The cleanser and toner both smelled incredible and left my skin feeling clean but still hydrated (I told her I hated that tight skin feeling that more drying cleansers give you and somehow she knew exactly what I was talking about). And I love that the anti-wrinkle serum also protects skin against environmental factors like UV rays, secondhand smoke, and city pollution — definitely a good weapon to have in my NYC arsenal.

foundation for dry sensitive skin

primer serum  //  tinted moisturizer  //  corrector  //  concealer

The next step was to create an even foundation for makeup. My skin looked so radiant after this phase that I would have felt totally comfortable leaving my apartment after just these four steps (and maybe a swipe of mascara). Sephora has an awesome tool that takes a picture of your exact skin tone and it turns out I’ve been using the wrong shade of my favorite NARS tinted moisturizer. She tried to sway me with Bobbi Brown foundation (which was gorgeous) but I liked that you can still see my freckles through a more sheer tinted moisturizer so NARS it is. Three application tips: apply your foundation or tinted moisturizer with a moist Beauty Blender, your corrector with a brush, and your under eye concealer with your ring finger (your pointer finger is too much pressure).

bronzer for pale skin

bronzer  //  blush  //  double sided brush

I was a little skeptical of finding a bronzer for pale skin but I really liked the way this accented my cheekbones. A new-to-me lesson on applying bronzer: start at your ear, applying in the shape of a 3 (or an E, depending on which side of your face you start on). Then use the angled side of the brush to add blush above the bronzer in a figure 8 motion to blend and sculpt.

eye makeup for pale skin and red hair

eye stick  //  eyelid primer  //  eye shadow  //  eyeliner

This is the part where I noticed the biggest difference: my eyes. The makeup artist used this eyelid primer and the corrector above to mask redness around my eyes and the slightly purple undertones above my eyelids. It took probably ten seconds and made me look instantly more awake. I’ve tried to do the same thing with regular concealer before but it tends to cake into fine lines, which the eyelid primer totally prevents. Bingo! Not pictured but equally magical: this mascara. Whoa.

face map for redheads

She also created this face map (which really puts the “art” in “makeup artist”) to help me remember what goes where (I told you I’m a rookie at this). I definitely didn’t buy everything she recommended but I had no problem spending $125+ on the primer serumcorrectoreye stick, and eyelid primer, among others. It was such a fun way to turn my morning around and I really learned a ton. I will be sure to report back on the products that become part of my everyday routine! Have you had your makeup professionally done? What did you think? Does makeup come naturally to you or is it something you’ve had to learn about? Do tell!

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Remember this list I wrote before the holidays of 35 experiential gifts to give instead of traditional presents? I decided to follow my own advice and book an NYC helicopter tour for Will for our anniversary in November. After rescheduling the trip a couple times due to inclement weather, we finally got to go on Sunday! (I booked it through Vimbly, the same company I used for our macaron workshop and pottery class.) I hadn’t been on a helicopter since our family trip to Alaska ten years ago and it was such an extraordinary way to see the city we both know and love. We lucked out with crystal clear blue skies… and an awesome playlist inside the helicopter. Cruising over Central Park listening to Alicia Keys belt out “now you’re in New Yooork” — unforgettable.

nyc helicopter ride

Hi, Statue of Liberty!

one world trade nyc helicopter tour

One World Trade.

empire state building nyc helicopter tour

Empire State Building.

central park helicopter ride nyc

Central Park.zip aviation nyc helicopter tour

It was so fun to be tourists in our own city! I only wish we’d waited a couple months to be able to see Central Park in all its green glory come spring. Have you ever taken a helicopter tour? What are your favorite touristy activities in NYC?


I have literally thousands of interiors that inspire me cataloged on my Pinterest boards and love the idea of sitting down to decorate a new space with these images in my arsenal. Recreating the feel of the spaces I love with similar pieces in a totally different city or at a completely different price point is such a fun challenge and one that I’d like to showcase more of on the blog. When I stumbled upon this colorful Melbourne apartment, it felt like the perfect way to kick off a new series!


Isn’t it stunning? I love the subtle bohemian feel and the thoughtful use of color in the accessories. Here’s how I’d replicate the same vibe:

design darling e-decorating

chandelier  //  pineapple print  //  abstract print  //  surf print  //  hot pink lamp  //  side table  //  tufted sofa

ikat throw pillows  //  tassel pillow  //  fiddle leaf fig tree  //  ikat floor pillows  //  navy Moroccan rug

How’d I do? Are you interested in seeing more posts like this one? Could you live in the space above? Let’s hear it!

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design darling apartmentInstagram of my apartment!

Headboard  //  bedding  //  lamp  //  table  //  art print  //  chair

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