I’ve continued putting on non-workout clothes in the mornings and it’s continued to be a great mood boost even on days we’re mostly hanging around the house. I’ve had this chambray shirt for years and love it paired with white denim during the summer and layered under a sweater come fall. And I first received these Nantucket pajamas as a gift from a dear friend at my baby shower last summer and have since reordered them in each new size as Teddy’s gotten bigger! They’re part of a Roller Rabbit collaboration with Erica Wilson on Nantucket and make me so happy every time I pull them out of Teddy’s dresser. He’s still fitting into the 9 month footie pajamas pictured here but I’m excited to order him the two piece set when he outgrows this pair!

roberta roller rabbit erica wilson nantucket pajamas 1

stubbs & wootton nantucket loafers and roberta roller rabbit erica wilson nantucket pajamas

roberta roller rabbit erica wilson nantucket pajamas 2

J.Crew chambray shirt  //  L’Agence white jeans

Stubbs & Wootton bespoke Nantucket motif slippers (use code DESIGNDARLING for 20% off)

Roller Rabbit x Erica Wilson Nantucket pajamas

P.S. Also want to get Teddy this Roller Rabbit onesie! So cute.

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My brother Camden and I just added a bunch of new prints to the Etsy shop we run together and I’d love for you to take a peek if your walls are in need of a little summer love! I’ve already ordered this print and I can’t wait to find a home for it when we get back to Connecticut. Sharing a few of my favorites below but click here to see even more new arrivals!

colorful kayaks framed print

Colorful Kayaks

brant point lighthouse print

Brant Point Lighthouse on the Water

Smith Point Sunset Waves printSmith Point Waves at SunsetSteps Beach Staircase Framed printSteps Beach Staircase

Sailboat Reflection Framed print

Sailboat Reflection

Pink Rose Arbor Framed print

Pink Rose Arbor

Surfside Beach Waves Framed print

Surfside Beach Waves

Brant Point Walkway Framed print

Brant Point Walkway

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We’ve been on Nantucket for a little over a week and I’m so grateful for the change of scenery. Teddy is giving us a bit of a hard time adjusting to sleeping in his pack and play at night but he’s loving island life during the day — long walks in a different neighborhood every morning, afternoon trips to the beach, and outdoor showers every night before dinner! There’s so much out here that I can’t wait to show him and watching him experience all my favorite things for the first time makes my heart so full. One of the things I was most excited to do with him was sailing on The Endeavor, which we’ve done at least once a year for the last eight summers and even took some of our engagement photos on back in 2016. Seeing Teddy and his second cousin Hayes take it all in was so sweet, but I’m pretty sure Teddy was just as excited about being fed Ritz crackers by his Mimi as he was about being on a boat. In any event here are a few photos from our afternoon on the water!

children's ack sweater ellsworth and ivey

endeavor sailing nantucket

baby driving loafers elephantito

nantucket stubbs & wootton

nantucket sailing design darling

endeavor sailing

elephantito boys' driver loafer

baby nantucket sweater

nantucket stubbs & wootton and elephantito baby driving mocs

sailing nantucket sound

baby ack sweater

endeavor nantucket

ellsworth and ivey children's ack sweater

dog on endeavor sailing nantucket

Ralph Lauren cable knit cashmere sweater  //  L’Agence white jeans  //  Stubbs & Wootton bespoke Nantucket lighthouse slippers

Teddy’s ACK sweater  //  Teddy’s white chinos  //  Teddy’s driving mocs (Teddy is nine months and wearing infant size 2)

Will’s Stubbs & Wootton navy slippers  // Emily’s Ralph Lauren cardigan (similar)  //  Hayes’s Nantucket sweater

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P.S. Thank you to those who have expressed concern about the babies not wearing life jackets. I’m ashamed of having made this mistake and it will not happen again.

P.P.S. A few past sailing adventures here, here, here, and here.

P.P.P.S. You can use code DESIGNDARLING for 20% any full price Stubbs & Wootton order!


As much as I prayed for him to have Will’s complexion, Teddy has definitely inherited my pale and sensitive skin and I’ve been on a mission to find the best products to protect it this summer. I started with Thinkbaby (a popular baby sunscreen rec) and found it messy and impossible to rub in, especially on a wiggly little one. Next I placed an order for this and this from Supergoop. Their products aren’t cheap, but I had a hunch I would love them because I love both their Unseen Sunscreen and more recently their Glowscreen for myself. The spray bottle makes for a much easier application than the tube I’d initially tried and is better for an all-over base, but the sunscreen stick is the absolute best for reapplications once we’re out in the backyard or in the stroller.

I also wanted to share these adorable Nantucket sun shirts from Centre Pointe, one of my favorite boutiques on the island. Each shirt has the outline of Nantucket on the chest and the island coordinates down one sleeve, but the best part is they offer UPF sun protection and come in sizes to fit the whole fam! Teddy is wearing the children’s size XS (it’s still a bit big on him but he’s 8.5 months and tiny for his age!), I’m in the women’s size S, and Will has the navy unisex one to match Teddy’s. They’re so easy to pop on with a swimsuit or shorts and dry quickly so you can reach for them day after day!

centre pointe nantucket sun shirts-2

centre pointe nantucket sun shirt

Any other baby sun protection recs for me? We also love these baseball caps and these baby wayfarers!


Happy Friday! We are still in the throes of sleep training over here and it’s been a bit of a mixed bag this week. We’ve had some really successful longer stretches at night but also some super fussy nap-less days and I’m hoping we’ll be in a better all-around rhythm soon because I am tired. But we kicked off construction on the loft above our garage and the mudroom this week (more on both those projects here!) and I feel like they’re making great progress so far so that’s been a major bright spot in the week. This weekend I’m heading into the city to meet my cousin’s new baby boy and I could not be more excited to see them both! I hope you all have a great one!

1. What’s your favorite destination in New England besides Nantucket?

I’d love to spend more time in Rhode Island, Boston, and Maine! I’ve really enjoyed weekend trips to Newport, Watch Hill, and Vermont and would love to do a road trip through Maine in the fall.

2. Do you ever wonder what you’d be doing as a career if blogging didn’t work out?

I worked in PR doing social media for brands very briefly before going full-time with my blog and the e-commerce site I ran for five years so my hunch is I’d be in the same industry but on the other side of it! 

3. I’m looking to create a self-care package for a mom-to-be. What would you recommend?

Aww I love this idea! I think a favorite candle, an ice roller, a sheet mask or two, and/or a gift certificate for a quick service like a mani/pedi or a blowout would be so thoughtful! 

4. What are you most excited to show Teddy on Nantucket?

I’m probably most excited to take him to the beach! We’re planning to start swim lessons with him in a couple months and I can’t wait to get him in the ocean this summer. And I can’t wait to take him to run (probably crawl?) around at Sankaty (some of my favorite childhood memories!) and watch him experience the outdoor shower for the first time. And I’m not sure when he’ll be able to have ice cream for the first time but I’m sure he will love Juice Bar as much as I do! 

5. Is there anything you miss about living in NYC?

That was such a fun time in my life! I loved the energy, the restaurants (I feel like we would go on date nights like three times a week?!), weekend hangs in Central Park, and living so close to so many of our friends (many of whom have since moved away). I don’t have a desire to live there at this stage in our lives but it’s something I’ll always be happy I experienced! 

6. What were your must-haves in approaching your kitchen renovation? 

I talked all about our appliances, cabinetry, countertops, and more in this post earlier this week! 

7. How did you manage friends and family visiting you and Teddy in the first month?

Not well, haha. I wrote a little about this in this post about our first month with Teddy, but looking back I wish I’d been a little more selfish in carving out time for myself to start the physical healing process and wrap my head around our new reality. I should have been icing and doing sitz baths rather than trying to visit with everyone and it’s something I plan to do differently when we have a second! 

8. How do you deal with mom guilt? It’s so hard!

I feel you on this. Any waking moment that I’m not giving Teddy my full attention makes me feel horribly guilty and it’s definitely something I need to work on for my own sanity. I feel most guilty when he’s resisting a nap and I’m trying to get work done, so I try to remind myself in those moments that I’m working to provide for his future, that my mom working set a strong example for me and my siblings growing up, and that feeling guilty is consuming energy that I would otherwise be devoting to him later on. I obviously have an easier time working once he’s sleeping or when I know my husband or my parents are watching / entertaining him, but I waste a lot of time feeling guilty and it’s tough. 

9. Could you share pros and cons on Darien vs. Greenwich? Thank you!

We loved our three years in Greenwich but always had a feeling we would return to my hometown to buy a house and start a family. For us the pros of Greenwich would be the faster commute to the city for Will, amazing restaurants, a much livelier downtown area, proximity to a great hospital, and proximity to friends who live in town. Pros of Darien (again for us personally) were more affordable real estate, smaller class size in public schools, proximity to my parents, and more of a small town feel. Darien is about to embark on a major downtown revitalization effort that I’m hopeful will bring some more restaurants to town, but other than that it really is a great place to raise a family. I would spend some time in each to see how you feel as it’s really a question of personal preference (I have Greenwich friends who would never live in Darien and vice versa!).

10. What fashion purchases are you making for spring?

We don’t have a ton of travel plans this year as we embark on renovating our house and spring still feels pretty far off in Connecticut, but I rounded up 20 things I’m loving for spring in this post! I’ve only ordered this top so far but I’m planning on revamping my denim assortment as I feel like a high waist has become my best friend postpartum. I’ve been living in this pair but any other suggestions welcome!